Dating with Diplegic Cerebral Palsy

How can you support women during women’s empowerment month?

Support women creators by buying their content.

I can get matches but that doesn’t guarantee she’ll message me, which also means all in all, I might lose out on the connection to begin with.

It’s not fair to think I would get more matches if I didn’t disclose my disability.

I developed this routine of swiping on Bumble when I feel the urge I need a partner or I’m bored. I’m not actively searching for a partner though.

It’s a meaningful activity because it energizes me to be better.

I choose to never move past a first date, because 1) I physically wasn’t attracted to matches and 2) I feel I need to have a stable career, with stable money, before I date.

Skills: looking people up on the internet and doing my research

Ideas that didn’t work (dating experiments):

Going out to a Japanese Garden.

Getting my match flowers and chocolates on Valentine’s day.

Dating roadmap-

What I want dating in my 20s to be like? Deadlines-2040

Matching with women that share my interests, and resonate with my values as I try to get my life together, personally and professionally.

Career wise- professionally

I’m not even being considered for entry level marketing positions.

I applied to three positions.

Two no’s. One has yet to reply.

Interviewing tips

Getting a salary is more challenging than I thought.

4 years outta college… no salary position!

I’m also petty I’m still a 25 year old virgin.

GOOGL ain’t free= CMCSA bills + TMUS bills

I can’t even land myself a job that will net me a 40k salary.

I’m getting tired of Instagram, I think I can only make Fridays for it, at 3pm.

Sometimes I feel the only thing I have is the stock market and NBA basketball.

Sometimes I get wrapped up into the Warriors being my identity.

Sometimes I consider not checking up on the scores, because I have no championship on the line.

Mentally exhausted after a game shift, physically hungry.

“We don’t have time to go to Disneyland, we on our grind!”

Lol, I love my favorite ticket sales reps. :’)

But sometimes I don’t really wanna be here…

The fact that I feel the need to express that sometimes I really feel I don’t wanna be here should serve as a reason why I need to make it work here on earth.

It’s a Wednesday evening and Saturday morning, I’m using the internet.

I remember my college professor emphasizing that the videos I make are my portfolio.

I’ma do dope content without me having to do any marketing of my work (portfolio).

I think my favorite artist of all time has to be the Kendrick Lamar.